Explaining your story and listening to others

One of the things I find most frustrating yet so helpful is explaining your story.
So here we are, still freshly started on NaNoWriMo and my story is just creeping along. I can already tell my brain is having a hard time putting all the pieces together and making everything fit in the way I eventually want it to work out.
One of the ways I get through these slow times is I talk to someone (a friend or my relatives) about my story. As I explain my story I start working out what doesn't work in the story and what could help as a catalyst to bring about other events in the story.
The problem I find, however...is the listener. They tend to ask too many questions right off the bat and aren't content to just listen to the story as you have it in your head. So then you have to stop and explain a back story or an obscure motivation that explains why the character does this or that, but then your listener gets stuck on asking more questions about the back story too!
And on and on it goes until you are so far back in time that you are explaining how the character's parents met.
I do think that we as writers get so caught up in the idea of certain story elements and events that we lose sight of if it is plausible. I think having a listener is a good idea because they can offer insight into what simply doesn't work in a story or when something works so well you need to expound upon the idea.

What I have noticed as a writer is it's hard to listen to other writers who are trying to explain their stories. I believe it's because we as writers don't think about our stories in a clean cut, linear timeline. We have all of these lines of a spider web connecting relationships between characters, backstories, sub-plots, motivations, antagonists, protagonists, and all the characters in between the two. Simply asking a writer "What's the main character's motivation?" is a can of worms that no one is ready to open and deal with, not even the writer because they have to explain too many elements of the story in order for the motivation to make sense!
The right questions to ask are more specific to the writer's story because it shows that you (as a listener) have been comprehensively listening to what actually is going on and truly want to understand the story.

Deep breath.

Now that I got that off my chest it is time to go back to writing...

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NaNoWriMo

This year I'm going to try this again.
Last year I didn't even come close to crossing the 50,000 word finish line and I think I know why...

Sure, the idea is that you can marathon sprint your novel into existence but like every marathon, you need to practice. At the time, I was writing maybe 1,000 words a month. It is not a completely terrible pace considering I have a full-time job, and a life. But to go from that to trying to strangle 50 times that out of my brain is freaking difficult.

Another thing is I didn't plan. Wrimos call it "pantsing" as in "flying by the seat of your pants." It is a fun idea to see where the winds of inspiration will lead. But the winds died in the second week into it last year and I deleted my account out of spite.

As I registered my new account this month, I went poking around the website and I found the "regions" section. I didn't bother with much beyond the word count on the website last time and now that I decided to look around, I'm glad I did. The regions' tab got me connected with people in my area who participate in NaNoWriMo too! The foreigners in South Korea can be quite diverse and it can be hard to find others who have similar interests. So, not only is this a chance to create a motivating network, it also serves as a way to meet new and interesting people who already share a lot in common.

So here is the checklist of things I need to work on BEFORE November 1st rolls around:

1. Start getting the hang of writing every day with small goals at first and work up to larger word counts.

2. Plan a general outline of the story. This includes characters, major events, plot twists, culture tips, Pinterest the crap out of pictures that give great visuals for the story, and a good music playlist.

3. Connect with people who are also doing NaNoWriMo and share inspirations, tips, and give support. Don't be so selfish!

While I did some reading on ways to be successful at NaNoWriMo and how to prepare for it, I also saw a lot of people out there who are completely against the idea of a National Novel Writing Month. Most of the negativity seems to revolve around the belief that it is just about a word count and will be worth nothing at the end of a month. Where do you go with a novel that is full of "reallys and verys?" You edit.
This is only a first draft.
Maybe they should call December the National Edit Your Draft Month. No, wait...we need a break after that marathon in November and a chance to enjoy the holidays since Thanksgiving gets all gobbled up. Pun intended.
Anyway, my point is to stay away from the naysayers and just work on getting the novel out of the brain. Worry about the cutting board later.

Let's do this!

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